Guide To Anal Sex

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Guide To Anal Sex.

Anal sex is a beautiful experience for experienced couples. However, our guide to anal sex will help you approach it with care and consideration. This is mainly for newbies and couples looking to try anal for the first time. In addition, we will tell you what you need for safe play with your partner. But remember, not everyone likes receiving anal sex, and this can lead to heated discussions between couples.

What is Anal Sex?

It is where you or your partner wants to give or receive something into their anus—(Usually a finger, sex toy, tongue or penis). This is something sexually crucial for some and gives them the satisfaction they need during sex. Most couples begin this journey slowly, and over time, it becomes normal for your partner to indulge in anal play gently.

Furthermore, it need not happen with every sexual encounter, and boundaries are common. So, couples generally work it out with each other and enjoy an everyday sex life. Read more from our guide to anal sex and discover it might be what’s missing from your sex life.

Do I Need a special lubricant?

Yes and no, there are lots of anal lubricants that are only for anal play. However, these are usually silicone-based and not suitable for use with sex toys or some condoms. Also, the relaxing or numbing gels target the sphincter but are not eligible for vaginal or oral play. But a good water-based lube is ideal for anal or vaginal and will be okay with all your sex toys, including sex toy dolls and male masturbators.

In addition, the anus is not self-lubricating like the vagina and will quickly become dry and uncomfortable without gel. So, have a bottle of gel handy and some other props to enjoy this naughty pleasure with your delighted lover.

How to Apply Lube For Anal Sex?

Apply lots of gel to the anus and even more to the penis or sex toy that is going gently into the body. Once inside the anus, apply some more lube. With time, you will perfect this process and only use as much gel as needed for comfort. However, relaxing the sphincter muscle is the key to good comfortable anal play. Also, a warm bedroom and a lover with warm hands can make good anal sex become a fantastic sexual experience.

Practice with small dildos or butt plugs before opting for larger sex toys. Relaxing with a gentle finger massage will also help, and after a couple of minutes, your body will be comfy enough for full penetration. Our Guide To Anal Sex is unisex and applies to all sexes.

Anal Finger Massaging.

This is a simple foreplay technique and works wonderfully well. First, apply lubricant to your partner’s anus and your fingers. Second, gently rub your partner’s sphincter for several minutes without penetrating it. Third, this massage will help relax your partner, allowing the sphincter to loosen. Then, when the time is right, you will feel it with your fingers (The sphincter opening). Now is the time to slowly insert the tip of your forefinger. By this time, your lover is ready for a bit more anal fun.

By this time, your lover might want to play with your bum hole, and it’s your turn to kneel up. But don’t worry, you have had lots of practice and can tell them what’s best for you.

Things You Might Need?

When it comes to anal sex, there are several items that you should have to hand. Tissues are a must-have during play and will be perfect for wiping hands, excess lubricant and anything else that needs cleaning. Condoms are also essential if sharing dildos or vibrators if you can’t be bothered with cleaning them during play. Flavoured lubricants bring new pleasures when butt play leads to oral and cunnilingus sex. A dark-coloured face towel will be handy if any mishaps happen during lovemaking.

This Guide To Anal Sex is only a guide. Couples and singles find exciting new ways to stimulate the sphincter, and new creams arrive on the market daily.

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