Enhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play

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Exciting New Sexual Tips For Couples

Enhancing pleasure with temperature play is another way to bring extra spice and sexual sensations into your bedroom games. Hot or cold are not words your partner usually says during foreplay or lovemaking. However, most of us have experienced the touch of a lover’s cold hand and shuddered with excitement. Or reaching over with cold feet and relishing the warmth from your partner’s body as you snuggle together.

In this guide, we will talk about the thrill of using hot or cold to open new avenues of sexual exploration safely. From the thrilling feel of a cold metal dildo to the excitement of hot lubricant and a vibrating bullet. We will also talk about using sex toys like glass, metal, and silicone that react well to temperature changes.

What is Temperature Play?

Enhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play close up of a clear ice cube.

Temperature play involves applying heat or cold to sensitive body areas. The (nipples, clitoris, penis, testicles, back and inner thighs, to name a few). Introducing hot or cold to these areas will create stimulating sensations that feel unique and sexually exciting. But of course, when you combine sex toys and a willing partner, you can experience unbridled sexual pleasures with orgasmic results.

Beginners can enjoy the practice of temperature play using ice cubes or a glass/metal dildo or butt plug heated in warm water. Cherry Pink has lots of sex toys that you will enjoy heating or cooling when trying this exciting practice. But don’t forget that ice melts and can wet your bedsheets, and a cup of warm water might spill and stop your fun.

Why Use Temperature During Foreplay?

Enhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play close up of girl rubbing ice on her neck.

First, it’s fun, different and exciting to have your partner touching your intimate parts with hot or cold items. Second, a cold touch increases sensitivity and gives you new heights of awareness (nipples on a chilly day), while warmth has a soothing effect that makes you relax.

However, both effects add extra spice to your sexual games. You can also warm beach stones in warm water and pretend you are having an expensive spa day out together.

Using a dildo is exciting and feels fantastic as it reaches your erogenous areas. However, add hot or cold to the experience, and you will encounter even more thrilling sensations.

Take this experience further and wear a blindfold, then relish in ecstasy as each touch becomes unbearable. When using anything new in your sexual routine, be careful not to hurt or get hurt or cause discomfort to one another.

Precautions During Temperature Playing Games:

During our research for this blog, Enhancing Pleasure with Temperature Play, we realised it is essential to follow some guidelines to stay safe during play. We have made a small list of what to look out for below:

  • Test The Temperature Before Use:

Before slipping a hot or cold dildo into your lover, hold to the inside of your thigh or wrist to ensure it is not too hot or cold. The last thing you want is to give your partner frostbite or a burn, and don’t forget to use lube with the dildo.

  • Avoid Extreme Temperatures:

Don’t boil or freeze anything that you are going to use for sexual play. For instance, freezing or boiling a metal dildo or butt plug could cause tissue damage, burns or frostbite. Explaining this to your doctor will be challenging as you hold your partner’s hand on the way to the hospital.

A comfortable temperature range is between 40°F (cold) and 104°F (warm). A cheap temperature gauge can be found at Tesco, and it will be ideal for the Sunday Chicken or Roast afterwards.

  • Don’t apply heat or ice directly:

Ice might stick to your lover’s clitoris, nipples, testicles or penis head, so wrap ice in a face towel or clean cloth before touching it to your partner’s body. In addition, a dildo or vibrator resting in hot water might get too hot for comfort, so always check before touching it off your partner.

  • Be Mindful of The Material:

Some materials retain hot and cold temperatures longer than others, which is ideal for prolonged sexual play. In contrast, certain materials like jelly-based sex toys and plastics are sensitive to hot or cold and might degrade during play. So when looking for sex toys to enjoy this kind of play, metal, silicone, and glass are the best options and will last a lifetime.

  • Pillow Talk is Vital:

Before you bring a jug of hot water, some ice in a dish, and several metal sex toys into the bedroom, let your partner know your intentions beforehand. The ideal time to bring up the idea of temperature play is during foreplay. Of course, you could try warming or cooling lubricants to see if you enjoy using them with your lover. Once you both warm to the idea of temperature play (pun intended), ensure you have the proper sex toys for safe fun.

Enhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play and Toys:

Metal or Glass DildosGlas 7.5 inch Blue Glass Dildo on a white background.

The best sex toys for temperature play are some that you probably have in your sex toy collection. Metal or glass dildos or butt plugs both hold the heat of cold exceptionally well. To heat, place them in a bowl of warm water for about 5 minutes, take them out and pat them dry with a clean cloth or towel. Ensure the dildo or butt plug is not too hot by placing it on your wrist or inner arm.

To cool the dildos or butt plug, you can place them in the fridge (not the freezer), ensuring there is no one looking to make a sandwich in the meantime. You can also use a bowl of ice. Both these materials clean easily and are perfect for repeated play.

Beach Stone MassagersEnhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play six Black Massage Stones

For those looking for something more romantic, you might enjoy a stone massage. Stone massagers made from materials like rose quartz, jade, or basalt can hold the heat for long periods, which makes them perfect for relaxing and gentle massaging. Holding a warm stone under your lover’s testicles during oral sex adds an exciting new element of sexual pleasure.

Cherry Pink Heating Vibrators

Purple Thrusting Rabbit Vibrator With Heating Function on a White Background

Some of today’s modern vibrators have a heating element fitted and will get warm at the touch of a button. These are perfect for those looking to enjoy the heat of an internal toy without heating it in water. In addition, these have strong motors offering G-spot and clitoral stimulation. They are usually made from high-quality silicone and provide the desired vibration with a warming twist.

Silicone-Based Sex ToysFlesh coloured Real Love Dildo 7 Inch

Silicone is a soft, body-safe material used in making high-quality sex toys. It is usually non-porous, fully waterproof, and easily cleaned. You can enjoy using your silicone sex toys for mild-temperature play. However, silicone doesn’t hold heat or cold like glass or metal and is ideal for beginners and first-timers looking for temperature play.

Cooling or Heating LubricantsEnhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play tubes of Orgie Hot and Cool Lubricant

You can also experience the effect of hot and cold during lovemaking or solo sex games with Cherry Pink’s lubricants. While not sex toys, lubricants will create a warming, tingling or cooling sensation when placed on your erogenous areas that feels amazing. These thrilling lubricants from our vast range are body-safe and explicitly designed for intimate use.

Enjoy Safe Sexual Play Together:

Use the above-temperature play sex toys and lubricants with a bit of caution, and always be careful not to hurt or cause discomfort. When heating or cooling sex toys, be extra cautious not to spill the warm or ice water. Metal and glass dildos are much stiffer than the usual sex toys you might have in your collection, so be extra gentle. Start your journey slowly and let it build up naturally.

Once you are ready to play, have fun. Don’t start with the erogenous areas; instead, spend time touching the back, neck, and inner thigh with a hot or cold sex toy. You could also use massage oils to get both in the mood before bringing out the warm or cold water. Alternating between cold and hot is also exciting and leaves your lover wondering and even more excited.

Sexy lingerie and a blindfold add the cherry to your cake, and the temperature keeps rising. These games keep evolving, and there are no limits once you start.

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Cherry Pink Says:

When trying new bedroom games, the idea is to have fun together. While temperature play is exciting and different, both couples should have an enjoyable adventure. Heating and Cooling lubricants are less complete than ice and water and less messy. However, using temperature play with sex toys brings new joy and sexual thrills never before experienced.

With a bit of imagination and a willing lover, you will quickly turn your bedroom into a playroom with glass and metal sex toys resting in jugs of hot and cold liquid. Enhancing Pleasure With Temperature Play might be the best game you ever played.

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