In this comprehensive guide to dildos, you will find the answers to all your questions on these fascinating sex toys. We will explain how they work and what materials companies use when making dildos. You will also discover the difference between realistic dildos and phallic-shaped sex toys. These unisex sex aides have been around for thousands of years. Some dildos vibrate or move up and down to mimic lovemaking.
Others are waterproof and ideal for bath, shower, jacuzzi or swimming pool use. We will also tell you how to get the most from your Dildo and how to keep it clean and ready to use. So, let’s start.
Comprehensive Guide to Dildos
What is a Dildo?
We often get asked the question what is a dildo? And what are they for? A dildo is a sex toy you use for penetrative sexual pleasure. You can use a dildo for solo sex (Masturbation) or with a partner during foreplay. Dildos are supposed to mimic a natural erect penis. But are sometimes much larger in length and girth. A realist dildo will be between 5 and 6 inches long (12.5 to 15.2 cm) with a circumference of 4 to 5 inches (10 to 15.2 cm). The perimeter is the circumference of the widest part of the penis or Dildo.
Dildo makers use many materials to make them as realistic as possible. Modern dildos can have a soft outer skin with a ridged inner core to make them as authentic as possible to a male penis. Dildos can come with a curved body that is ideally suited to vaginal penetration. However, some dildos are suited more to anal sex with a slightly tapered shape.
Types Of Dildos
With so many types of dildos, you might wonder which one you should buy. First, when choosing your Dildo, think of what you want it for. For instance, are you sharing it with a lover? Do you like vibrations, or do you want to experience hands-free play? Also, some like the cold feel of metal or glass, while others enjoy long dildos. We recommend using lots of slippery lubricants, which you often apply with all dildos for more comfort.
Strap-ons Dildos:
These Strap-on dildos are ideal for couples looking to experience exciting new pleasures. For example, these Strap-on dildos are suitable for pegging sex (Female makes love to their male partner).
Also, these hollow Strap-ons are perfect for males looking to last longer during lovemaking. Erectile dysfunction (Impotence) is less stressful when you can wear a hollow Strap-on dildo to keep your partner sexually pleasured. Girl-on-girl sex is also more exciting when you share a Strap-on dildo to add extra spice to bedroom games.
Vibrating Dildos:
These vibrating dildos come in many sizes and colours. Some are waterproof and rechargeable, bringing exciting new pleasures in the bath or shower.
These vibrating dildos are also ideal for clitoral stimulation, G-spot stimulation and anal play. In addition, vibrating dildos are perfect for couples to use during foreplay for nipple, clitoral and testicle play.
Suction cup Dildos:
Suction cup dildos have a mighty sucker at the base that sticks to most clean surfaces. These sex toys are perfect for solo players looking for deep penetration.
Of course, they are ideal for vaginal or anal play, and most are compatible to use with a Strap-on harness. From a finger size to eye-watering large, these will quickly become your favourite sex toy.
Double-ended Dildos
These super exciting Double-ended Dildos have two ends, each with a penis-shaped tip. Some of these have a ridged body and are ideal for couples each looking for penetrative sex play simultaneously.
You will enjoy many different positions during play (e.g., Kneeling bum to bum, sitting facing together, legs intertwined, groins touching).
However, some are soft and flexible and perfect for double penetration (Vagina and anal play). Also, same-sex couples will enjoy exciting new fun sharing sexual fun with these double-ended sex toys.
Some of these dildos have a narrower end which is usually the anal end for beginners. Cherry Pink recommends using lots of lubricants with all anal sex toys.
Large Dildos:
Any dildo with a shaft over an average penis size is a large dildo. In Ireland, the average size penis is 12.80 cm or slightly over 5 inches. In addition, the average depth of a vagina is 5 to 12.9 cm or 3 to 5.9 inches. Oversized dildos are ideal for couples and solo players looking to expand their pleasure limits.
Oversized or huge dildos give the feeling of fullness some require to orgasm. Any dildo over six inches long is considered a significant or large dildo. So, if you and your partner want to experience fuller sex and extreme pleasures, a large dildo might be what you need.
Glass Dildos:
Holding a glass dildo for the first time is exciting fun and feels strange. It is cold to the touch, very firm and hard. But, of course, it is also beautiful. It feels exhilarating, naughty and sexual.
Sometimes, the glass dildo has a gently curved shaft with raised ridges for extra stimulation. Other examples are smooth penis-shaped dildos with bulbous heads (Tips). These dildos are incredibly durable borosilicate glass and never break during regular play.
Glass is ideal for heating, cooling, or freezing for extreme-temperature play. It is also perfect for deep internal play and will pleasure the G-spot or P-spot with ease. In addition, some glass dildos have vibrations and silicone handles for even more fun. Also, glass dildos are non-porous, ideal for anal sex and sharing with a partner and easy to clean.
Dildo Materials
Dildo manufacturing companies use many different materials when constructing sex toys, from metal, silicone, PVC, plastic, rubber, jelly, wood, and a combination of all the above. However, when choosing your Dildo or a dildo for your partner, choose a body-safe sex toy only. Also, when using sex toys for vaginal and anal play, non-porous toys are a must-have.
The good news is most modern dildo materials are safe to use and enjoy. However, read the package and instructions if they are available. Latex and Phthalate-free dildos are what you are looking for. Glass, metal, and Medical-grade Silicone dildos are perfect for all players and will last a lifetime.
The Comprehensive Guide to Dildos Materials:
- Silicone: The best material for a realistic sex toy is silicone. It is hypoallergenic, durable, non-porous and easy to keep clean.
- Glass: Non-porous, ideal for temperature play (heat or cool it in water), smooth and exciting for solo or couples play.
- Metal: Hard and perfect for vaginal or anal play. You can heat or cool it in water, and it is ideal for couples sharing sex toys.
- TPE Plastics: These materials make great sex toys. It has no phthalates and has Hypoallergenic Properties.
- Jelly/Rubber: These sex toys are often more affordable but not as good as Silicone or TPE/TPR and are more challenging to clean.
Realistic Feel and Shape
Are Dildos a Realistic Feel and Shape?
Most dildos feel and look like a natural penis (But a little larger, to be fair). However, you can get a stiff glass or metal dildo that feels nothing like a natural penis. But warming these cold, stiff dildos in water brings a new, exciting sexual feeling during use. These stiff dildos are perfect for those who enjoy fast, penetrative play.
However, some soft silicone dildos will thrill and deliver orgasms just like an old lover. Also, some dildos have a foreskin that mimics an uncut penis. Some silicone dildos move up and down gently, while others wiggle deep inside your body. Additionally, you can have a dildo with a set of soft swinging testicles. So yes, some dildos have a realistic feel and shape.
Features to Consider
Dildos, like all sex toys, are ideal to help you achieve orgasm during masturbation. But you can also use your Dildo with your lover during foreplay. Dildos come in many sizes and diameters; choosing your first is exciting. Dildo manufacturing companies use many different materials. Also, some vibrate, are waterproof, and have testicles; others have a suction cup at the base that sticks to flat surfaces. Some have a curved body, while others are straight. Some dildos have realistic veins and even foreskin.
waterproof
Are Dildos Waterproof?
Yes, some of these dildos are fully waterproof and are perfect for players looking for exciting new fun in the shower or bath. However, they will also bring new thrills in the bedroom or any other room you use them in. Waterproof sex toys are easy to clean and ideal for couples sharing sex toys. Some have remote controls, which adds even more fun.
These remote control sex toys are perfect for sharing and allowing your lover to control your pleasure. Some come with a suction cup at the base and will stick to clean, flat surfaces. These are ideal for hands-free sex and steamy solo sessions in the shower.
Temperature Control
Is it temperature-controlled?
You can heat or cool some dildos in water to experience temperature play. These sex toys add extra spice to bedroom games, and couples enjoy the warm and cooling effect. However, we advise caution and never have the water too hot or internal damage might occur. Meanwhile, nothing spoils sexual fun like a trip to your local GP.
Rechargeable
Is the Dildo rechargeable?
These rechargeable dildos save money and the frustration of looking for batteries halfway through use. They are also usually splashproof or even waterproof and ideal for shower room play. You can charge these sex toys from your phone charger or any USB charging port, including your computer.
Anal Pleasure
Can I use my Dildo for anal pleasure?
Anal dildos are usually slightly less girthy than vaginal sex toys. However, anal sex toys need more lubricant than vaginal toys as the anus is not-self-lubricating. Anal sex is widely accepted as part of lovemaking nowadays, and couples enjoy this once-taboo act more often.
Anal sex toys need extra cleaning and care than vaginal dildos. You might also have to replace them more often than vaginal dildos. Condoms will help anal pleasure dildos last longer and keep cleaner if shared.
Choosing Your Dildo
Tips on Choosing Your Perfect Dildo:
First-timers should keep it realistic and stay clear of the nine-inch shelf. Also, don’t get something too girthy, or you will feel uncomfortable. Choose a body-safe silicone dildo, and it will last forever. A good dildo will bring you to orgasm during solo masturbation as it gently massages your internal sexual zones (G-spot). Use a water-based lubricant with your Dildo for extra comfort and sexual pleasure.
The Comprehensive Guide to Dildos Choosing Your Perfect Dildo:
Material: Depending on the Dildo you want, choose a body-safe material and something that you can clean easily.
Size: Choose a dildo size that makes you feel excited to use. A dildo that is not uncomfortable but thrilling. Choose a dildo for comfort and joy.
Texture: How it feels. Some dildos have a soft, natural feel, while others are smooth and less natural. Choose a texture you enjoy the touch of.
Shape: Straight dildos are perfect for penetration, while curved ones target your G-Spot. Both dildos are ideal for vaginal or anal play.
Non-realistic or Realistic: Some dildos have bumps, ridges and nubs. These are non-realistic. However, others mimic natural penis and are realistic.
The Base: The base is essential; a broad base is ideal for anal players, suction cups allow hands-free play, and vibrating dildos have base controllers.
Hard or soft: Choose the feel you want from a dildo. Metal, glass, and plastic dildos are stiff. At the same time, some realistic silicone dildos have a natural feeling.
Objective: Choose the Dildo for your sexual pleasure. Whether G-spot stimulation, anal satisfaction or general internal satisfaction, each Dildo is unique.
The Cost: Invest in a good dildo, and it will last a lifetime. Cheap dildos might be poor quality and not safe to use. You will never wear out a silicone dildo.
Intent: Choose a dildo to suit your needs. Realistic, glass, metal, suction cup, rechargeable, one to share or solo use only. Check them all before buying.
Overall View: As you can now see, choosing a dildo is not straightforward. However, do your research, read blogs and reviews, and your new Dildo is only a click away. Cheap is not always the way forward, and a good quality body-safe dildo will keep the thrills coming. Dildos need lubricant, and the slippery the Dildo is, the more pleasure it gives. Dildos make fantastic lovers and need no affection afterwards!
Care and Cleaning
How to clean your new Dildo:
Clean your Dildo before and after use. We tend to shove our Dildo under our pillow or shove it into the bedroom locker when finished orgasming. However, popping it into a clean container will keep it in better condition and tip-top order. Also, washing your Dildo before use stops dust and fluff from getting into your vagina.
Meanwhile, you can use a sterile wipe to clean the Dildo before using soapy water is unavailable. But we recommend using a sex toy cleaner regularly to keep your sex toys clean and in perfect order.
F.A.Q
Top ten frequently asked questions about dildos:
- What is a Dildo? A dildo is a sex toy shaped like a natural penis. The material is usually silicone and non-vibrating. These true-to-life sex toys are ideal for vaginal and anal play.
- Do Dildos Hurt? Using a dildo should not hurt or cause discomfort. If pain occurs during use, stop. Inserting a dildo should be pleasurable and thrilling. Use lots of lubricant and be gentle. If your partner has the Dildo, make sure they are gentle and don’t let them force it into your body. Choose a dildo suitable for your body and nothing too large or girthy.
- Are Dildos Safe to Use? Yes, if you have a body-safe dildo, you can enjoy it whenever you choose. Clean it before and after use, and keep it in a clean container. Use lots of water-based gel with your Dildo for even more comfort.
- Can I Use a Dildo With My Partner? Yes, using a dildo with a lover is perfectly safe once you clean it before sharing. However, using condoms when sharing is cleaner and feels even naughtier.
- If I am Pregnant, Can I Use a Dildo? Yes. If you use your Dildo gently and it is not oversized, using it when pregnant is fine. However, use gel and be extra careful when using deep penetration.
- Can I Use a Dildo For Anal And Vaginal Play? Yes, you can. However, cleaning the Dildo between uses is essential. Also, using condoms between uses when sharing is an easy way to keep your Dildo clean.
- What is The Best Lubricant to Use With a Dildo? Depending on the dildo material, you can use any lubricant that the dildo manufacturer recommends. However, water-based gel is always the best option for realistic dildos.
- Are Dildos Designed For Different Types of Sexual Stimulation? Yes, some dildos have curved shafts ideal for G-spot or Prostate stimulation. Some are double-ended and perfect for couples sharing, while textured dildos add another layer of sexual stimulation.
- Can I Use a Dildo For Strap-on Sex With a Harness? If your Dildo has a flared base, testicles or suction cup, it might be suitable for harness play. Of course, keep your harness in mind before purchasing your Dildo to ensure compatibility.
- Where Can I Buy a Dildo Discreetly? Not every online shop is discreet. However, Cherry Pink is Ireland’s most discreet online or in-store shop. Cherry Pink offers 100% packaging online. Their name will NOT be on the discreet package or your credit card statement.
Finally, The Comprehensive Guide to Dildos, from Cherry Pink Irelands Premium Adult Sex Toy Shop, aims to demystify the humble Dildo. As one of Ireland’s top-selling sex toys, the Dildo is unique and entirely unisex. By understanding the materials, different shapes, sizes and diameters, you can select your perfect Dildo.
These sex toys will bring many exciting moments alone or with a partner, and keeping them in tip-top condition is essential. Whether you are a first-time sex toy user or an experienced player, Cherry Pink is your trusted adult shop. We hope you enjoyed our blog on The Comprehensive Guide to Dildos as much as we enjoyed writing it.
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